My father is career military, a hard man with a tremendous work ethic. He was stern, but took good care of us as a family. He always wanted me, his only son, to join the military. I never had any interest and now I am finding myself in a strange predicament. My wife of three years is a police officer and I have opted to stay at home with our newborn daughter. My father cannot believe that I let the woman in the house be a cop while I am a stay-at-home dad. He seems so disgusted with me and somehow I can't help feel ashamed, but I know what I am doing is not shameful. What can I do?