My spouse asked a question on this site yesterday about our relationship. He said that he feels hopeless. I too am feeling hopeless. I listened to the answer your expert provided and realized that we are both to blame. He said, "I am starting to lose hope that we can resolve our differences," to which I agree. We are both losing hope. What he didn't say is that he has been staying at work rather than coming home. He makes me feel like he doesn't care when he does that. I get the idea that he feels like I don't love him, but I don't think he loves me. I am glad that he reached out first, I wondered if he really cared. I often wonder why this is so hard. Why we are both acting so immature? We really do argue about stupid things, just like me husband indicated. My question is this, "How can I get over the fact that I don't feel like he cares anymore?" I also need to learn how to stop re-acting to his lack of attention. I know I get angry which pushes him away, but I don't know how else to respond when he acts like he doesn't care. Thanks in advance to your team of great experts at MyExpertSolution.