1. My spouse knows and understands my feelings about most issues. | | | | | |
2. We go out on a date, just the two of us, at least twice a month. | | | | | |
3. I am unhappy in my relationship. | | | | | |
4. Both of us can easily say, "I'm sorry." | | | | | |
5. "Thank you" or other appreciations are rarely given by my spouse. | | | | | |
6. It's easy for my spouse to let go of negative events or comments. | | | | | |
7. It's easy for me to let go of negative events or comments. | | | | | |
8. I can talk with my spouse about anything and everything. | | | | | |
9. Our sex life rocks. | | | | | |
10. I sometimes think about what it would be like to be with someone else. | | | | | |
11. When we interact I feel tension. | | | | | |
12. Our relationship feels more like roommates than soulmates. | | | | | |
13. We touch, hug, and kiss several times a day. | | | | | |
14. My spouse and I frequently fight about small stuff. | | | | | |
15. I get nervous about or sometimes avoid bringing up frustrations with my spouse. | | | | | |
16. Most of our conversations focus exclusively around household schedules. | | | | | |
17. Sex has become scheduled and routine. | | | | | |
18. One or both of us have threatened divorce | | | | | |
19. I feel others understand me better than my spouse does. | | | | | |
20. Little things my spouse does irritate me. | | | | | |