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1. I am seriously considering leaving my marriage because of my partner's affair.
2. I cannot stop thinking about what my partner did.
3. I am so angry at my partner that I can hardly be around him/her.
4. My spouse is working very hard to earn back my trust.
5. Since discovering my partner's affair, I have been surprisingly calm.
6. My partner wants me to move on and act like nothing happened.
7. I isolate myself away from others since learning of my partner's affair.
8. I do everything I can to avoid thinking about what my partner did.
9. I don't trust anything that my partner does or says anymore.
10. I have turned to unhealthy behaviors (e.g., over- or under-eating, drinking, spending money) to cope with my pain.
11. I have had suicidal thoughts since discovering my partner's behaviors.
12. I have dreams about what my partner did.
13. I cannot help but feel like it is my fault that my partner had an affair.
14. My partner has been open with me about the affair.
15. My partner blames me for the affair.
16. I am committed to making this relationship work.
17. I feel like we have made it through the most difficult part of this.
18. The only reason I stay in this relationship is because I feel trapped.
19. I worry that I will never be able to get over this.
20. All my questions are driving my partner crazy but I have to know.
21. My partner doesn't understand my pain.

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